Denver Relationship Counselor

While few of us find we have most of the characteristics listed below, most of us find we have a few of these characteristics. And even a few of these characteristics can hamper the happiness, harmony, and intimacy of a coupleship. Check those you think may apply.

The more “yes” answers, the more likely the problem is. If you would like more information or would like a counselor to contact you, go to contact us and fill out the form. One of our counselors will contact you within 24-hours.

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We have two locations to better serve you:

Denver Southeast Office
7200 E. Hampden Ave., Suite 105
Denver, Colorado 80224
303-933-5800

Littleton Office
6901 S. Pierce Street, Suite 235
Littleton, Colorado 80128
303-933-5800

YES	NO
		1.	Being together and unhappy is safer than being alone
		2.	It is safer to be with other people than it is to be alone and intimate with your partner.
		3.	If I really let my partner know what I've done or what I'm feeling and thinking (who I am), I'll be abandoned.
		4.	It is easier to avoid, hide or medicate your feelings than it is to express them.
		5.	Being enmeshed and dependent with each other is perceived as being in love.
		6.	We find it difficult to ask for what we need, both individually and as a couple.
		7.	Being sexual is equal to being intimate.
		8.	We either avoid our problems, or feel we are individually responsible for solving the problems we have as a couple.
		9.	We believe that we must agree on everything.
		10.	We believe that we must enjoy the same things and have the same interests.
		11.	We believe that to be a good couple we must be socially acceptable.
		12.	We forget how to play together.
		13.	We get upset about little issues than to express our feelings about larger ones.
		14.	It is easier to blame our partners than it is to accept our own responsibility.
		15.	We deal with conflict by getting totally out of control or by not arguing at all.
		16.	We experience ourselves as inadequate parents
		17.	We are ashamed of ourselves as a couple.
		18.	We repeat patterns of dysfunction from our families-of-origin.
		19.	I can share positive and negative feelings with my partner.
		20.	We have some important disagreements that never seem to get resolved.

Marital Relationship Questionnaire